What is character? Your character is the degree to which you live your life
consistent with high, life-enhancing values. A person who lacks character
is one who compromises on higher order values in favor of lower order
expedience, or who has no values at all. Your adherence to what you believe
to be right and true is the real measure of the person you have become to
this moment.
Define What "Excellence" Means to You
Let us say that one of your values is "excellence." Your definition of
excellence could be, "Excellence means that I set the highest standards for
myself in everything I do. I do my very best in every situation and under
all circumstances. I constantly strive to be better in my work, and as a
person in my relationships. I recognize that excellence is a life-long
journey and I work every day to become better and better in everything I do."
Organize Your Actions
With a definition like this, you have a clear organizing principle for your
actions. You have set a standard by which you can evaluate your behavior.
You have created a framework within which you can make decisions. You have
a measuring rod against which you can compare yourself in everything you
do. You can continually grade your activities in terms of "more" or "less."
You have a clear target to aim at and organize your work around
You probably already know that the most successful people have incredible
levels of self-confidence. They've accomplished great levels of success and
happiness in their lives and seem to be uns toppable in everything that
they do.
The fact is, that when you develop unshakable self-confidence your whole
world will change for the better.
You'll have the confidence to take whatever steps necessary to make more
money and enjoy a higher standard of living. You'll be more powerful and
persuasive with other people. And you'll be more popular and likable.
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Decide What You Want for Your Family
It's the same with each of your other values. If your value is your family,
you could define this as, "The needs of my family take precedence over all
other concerns. Whenever I have to choose between the happiness, health and
well being of a member of my family, and any other interest, my family will
always come first."
Keep Focused
From that moment onward, it becomes easier for you to choose. Your family
comes first. Until you have fully satisfied the needs of your family, no
other time requirement will side track you into a lower value activity.
Shape Your Own Character
The wonderful thing about values clarification is that it enables you to
take charge of developing and shaping your own character. When your values
and goals, your inner life and your outer life, are in complete alignment,
you feel terrific about yourself. You enjoy high self-esteem. Your
self-confidence soars.
When you achieve complete congruence between your values and your goals,
like a hand in a glove, you feel strong, happy, healthy and fully
integrated as a person. You develop a kind of courage that makes you
completely unafraid to make decisions and take action. Your whole life
improves when you begin living your life by the values that you most admire.
Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do to put this ideas into action immediately.
First, create a clear, written description of your values and what they
mean to you. From that point on, resolve to live consistent with your own
definition.
Second, discipline yourself to live in complete alignment with the values,
virtues and qualities that are most important to you. This is the key to
character.
You need a flight plan to succeed. I'm always amazed at how many people
fail because they just don't have a plan. And having a plan isn't enough.
Just like an airplane pilot you must make course corrections to arrive at
your destination - your goals.
When you learn to create your flight plan - Your life will become a success.
By: Brian Tracy
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